I’m in the dating world never really been in an actual relationship. Trying to talk to people online and find something long term. I don’t want to date somebody who’s not going to accept my lifestyle cause it plain out is not going to work. I carry everyday so I try to at least mention it, or get it brought it up.
So I was talking to this chick and I asked her, if she’s okay with me having a concealed handgun license and if she would be okay with me carrying because a lot of people I talk to block me the minute I talk to them. I don’t want to waste people’s time.
Her response:
- I want to join the police academy so I’m okay with guns, and I want to eventually get my CCW, and I feel that guns aren’t good or bad.
So we talk and talk and talk and talk.
She went ahead and sent this long text out.
Finally done with laundry for the night. Off to bed. So I just want to be 100% honest… sometimes I get overwhelmed by the amount of messages that you send me. I’m pretty busy most of the time so if it will take my longer to read everything n then text changes are it’ll take me long to get back to you. Especially after I go to bed or I am at work. Also when it comes to music where wayyy different which is okay. Also I can tell u really really into self defense n guns n stuff. That’s fine but it’s kinda overwhelming to see/read because I’m “unsure” about my feeling of guns. Also if we met up in person would u be carrying? For me trust goes a long ways… until I build that up with you I wouldn’t be comfortable around u if u were carrying n I knew that. Also I’m a very realistic/ serious person… n I tend to only laugh at serious realistic things. So like memes on Facebook or videos of different thing I don’t like. I’m always busy with my child 90% of the day unless they’re sleeping so I rarely ever watch videos. I’m sorry I hope I didn’t hurt ur feeling. I just want to you be aware of how I feel if that makes sense. I hope you had a good night at work.
How should I feel about this? I told her from day 1 I carry everywhere I go, from the time I get up to the time I go to bed, every single day. It be a different scenario if I just said hey I have guns at my house, but I carry a gun on me in public.
Any advice? Thank you.