Focus on the target. Keep your firearm parallel and in line with your sight. It’s how you will most likely shoot in a self-defense situation.
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Yes, but no. Depends on the distance and the shooter. A further shot will require more accuracy which usually means closing one eye. A close shot requires less accuracy and both eyes open is good for that. or depending on the distance.