I figure she will contact me again at some point. But I don’t know where to begin to give her help.
My only idea is to bring her back in town, force her to quit her job 100 miles away, in a city where the prices and cost of living is outrageously high, get her a job here, clean her up, and reset her life and get to where she needs to be.
But again I’ve been in a situation where I moved in with roommates and they all ended up quitting their jobs, and forced me to pay everything while they “looked” for jobs, thinking these guys were my friends, I didn’t realize how horrible of a situation I was in, or how miserable I was until I had a night where a lady from out of state I’ve been talking to wanted to meet up and get an Airbnb together, and go on a date. We did, I taught her shooting and stuff, and it was at that moment I realized I was the happiest I’ve ever been since 2 years before that moment, so I never came back. Got out of that situation, and I’m still dealing with the financial mess from that still today.
But I know I’m moving in the right direction, just wished I could get other people there.
The friend here, is somebody I grew up with throughout elementary, middle, and high school and she keeps trying to manipulate me using those memories and telling me things that I’ve forgotten about or things I didn’t know about in school.
I hate seeing people failing in life, because everybody has potential.
But again when I desperately needed my own place, my current friend referred me to his landlord and I rent through his landlord, and when I was struggling with bills a bit on my own, and my boss demoted me and lied to the district manager that I wasn’t doing stuff that I was doing, and I needed a new job and a new one fast, my friend put a word in at his work and I got in the next week and I’ve been there a month already, have plenty of money got my bills caught up, and I’m doing just fine now. I never asked money from my friend, and now we work right next to each other, and hangout after work with each other.
But with her it doesn’t seem that that’s the path she wants to go on.
I told my friend last night as well, I’m the shiny knight with armor in the movie, not the TV series.