@Lacy you and I can definitely be friends 
I hear you on the exes… I’ve got two and I’ve lost two complete sets of tools that way. My current (and final) hubby is the first of them to be a serious gun guy, although I had a shotgun, a rifle, and a handgun before I met him. I probably didn’t qualify as a gun nut until after I married him. Now… um yeah, it’s not just him 
I think the only thing we’ve sold that I miss is the Desert Eagle .50AE… its expensive to shoot, but it was pretty fun.
No muzzle loaders in the safe, but the hubby sent me a picture of one the other day so… maybe we’ll fill that gap.