I woke up this morning and began my usual news reads across different platforms. I try to read across the spectrum and assemble my own version of “the truth” from the whole. This headline immediately caught my attention from a Right Leaning outlet. Reading the headline alone I asked myself “What was the failure?”
Did this man publicly speak against second amendment rights only to be killed by a gun?
I read the article and…. nothing. The only thing I can think of is that the man lived in California. The man lived in California so someone decided to make him a “That’s What you get” for Second Amendment rights. If the sole point was to celebrate the misery of another, or to claim that this man deserved what happened to him for living in California, or to claim California’s laws are why he died…..the first two I have nothing reasonable or rational to engage such a mind. Lets talk about the third.
If California having gun control laws but people still dying because of guns means they failed… does that mean those of us who say that we practice our 2A rights, if people still die around us, if we die while practicing our rights… does that mean 2A fails? How did most of handle people reacting to the Uvalde School shooting as they watched video of police with guns clearing delaying their entry into the school? Was that a second amendment failure?
Or did we change the rules? Did we say “thats different”, even though it isn’t and suddenly become rational. Did we say (correctly) that that was not a failure of the second amendment but rather of men. Those specific men failed.
I am and will continue to be a 2A advocate with the opinion that denigrating those who are ambivalent or against the Second Amendment is not going to help close the divide. I argue that engaging such individuals with transparency and earnest dedication to protecting human lives is the way. I think we can, and should try to win people in those camps over.
Instead of declaring them subhuman, or fools…. ask questions. Ask them why they think how they do. Present ourselves in front of them while carrying (I do this often. My state is conceal carry but I purposely open carry to normalize discussion and engagement ) and ask them “Do I come off as a threat to you or your family?” They always say no, so we continue talking.
These types of articles may feel good for a moment… but I don’t think they do much really useful. Instead of talking about each other, or worse AT each other…. I think we need to normalize talking TO each other, in order to get more citizens to realize that the 2 Amendment is not what fails when things go bad…. its men, and we are not afraid to talk about that with respect to the 2nd Amendment for the purpose of protecting us all against ALL FORMS of those men, not just the versions of bad men we are comfortable engaging on. The reality is, most Americans killed by a gun are killed by someone they know…. so spending the majority of our time talking about the wanton act of violence by the unknown criminal, leaves a gap in the conversation that I feel may be contributing to the gap between us and the anti-gun community.