Approach softly and with respect (or not), be ready to back off . Article states a confrontational encounter which is probably why the subject walked, at least for now. I worked in a psych ward for awhile back in my youth, and it was interesting watching several of the other employees get attacked by the same people who I never had an issue with. I had three murderers under my care,one killed a prostitute, 2 killed family members. No guns. Rage. The other four had interesting stories as well, though I’ll never forget Jimmy, who had ocd like you can’t believe. Drill Sergeant father, go figure. I also spent a couple years on the road, lot of time with the fellow homeless in San Francisco and the Cuban exiles in Miami. Young and dumb,but learned a lot about avoiding confrontation. Sometimes you need to out crazy the crazies, but generally a little respect goes a long way.
I indirectly work with kids who are in “homes” for various reasons. They remember my name and look forward to visiting me as a form of behavioral incentive.
In the setting as described by news reports, I wouldn’t want to be involved, unless I have to.
Yes, I have also dealt with a lot of people that acted violent toward others, but never toward me. Give a person proper deference, but make clear that you are not to be f’d with, too.
Starting to look like a pile of horse manure. Let’s have some ID’s and nationalities front and center. Nowadays with the cops and the media it’s what they don’t say that matters.
I think that’s why whenever somebody said ‘I have this half baked crazy idea to win the battle, itsa little OUT THERE! but the probability of it working out and all of you coming home intact is rather good’…
I’m following this to point out how easy it can be to get into a terrible situation. A crowded train. A guy talking to himself with load music… A skater with an attitude…
That’s when the skater realized he crossed the point of no return.
I’m not saying the stabbing suspect wasn’t at fault.
Lesson here, as a defender, don’t be the first to cross the point of no return.
My shitty neighbor announces his arrival by playing loud music from his car that causes the entire neighborhood to shake. Is it worth the trouble? Nah.